why do you have so much hate for Daddy Doms?

kinkyhippieprincess:

masteradept:

invisiblefemmeofcolor:

lemonadeleathers:

thattroikidd:

shegotflowernips:

I don’t hate Daddy Doms. Or I should say, I don’t hate REAL Daddy Doms.

I hate boys who think putting on that button down their mum bought & making a gif of them waggling their finger at the camera makes them a Dom.

I hate boys who think talking to a girl for a conversation that spans 3 messages automatically means the girl must call them “Daddy”

I hate boys who message girls who are brave enough to admit being submissive, telling them they’re dirty little whores who need to be taught a lesson by “Daddy”

I hate boys who think because they can fold a belt in half & leave a bruise on their girlfriend, they’re a Dominant.

I hate boys who assume they have the right to “make” a girl submit just because that boy possesses physical strength & a cock.

I hate profiles on fetlife that start with “If you are a submissive you WILL refer to me as my title of Master”

I hate Tumblr Daddy Doms. I hate pretend Daddy Doms. I hate misogynists who have found a niche where they can hide behind the title of Dominant to abuse women.

BDSM & D/s are incredible communities to be involved in, when you learn how to tell the people there for the right reasons from the ones there to get a kick out of causing trouble for other people.

She speaks word! 

Utter respect for this girl for stating my most hated thing about tumblr and its “bdsm” side, Guys on tumblr should be polite and respecting as they would im hoping in real life. Not a sex pest with a “dom” status to make them somehow a master of all women on tumblr. 

I am so glad to see this tonight.

The democratization of sex culture brought forth by the internet is an amazing and liberating thing, but one of its costs is losing the ability to effectively force a predator out of a community.

Education, standing together, and zero tolerance for abusive behavior are all we can do, and I think we all have responsibility to pursue that, even if it’s just deleting shitty comments from your reblogged posts.

DAMN!!! This is the truth tho.

And if you get offended by this post, you need to take a good, long, hard look at yourself and your actions.

❤ Bless this Post ❤