Re Epcot post, which i saw from jezunya: i read him as glad to know what’s up, so he won’t spend energy trying to get with you when it’s not an option? Not that he’s mad. He might be sad but it didn’t sound like he was putting that on you. Good luck

ruiningvoldemortday:

Thank you 🙂  I just have absolutely no idea how to respond.  The only thing coming to mind is “I’m sorry” but I don’t want to apologize for being myself even if he is reacting maturely. 

I’d go with something like “glad to help 🙂 ” since you did save him some trouble. Maybe “are we ok? I’d still like to hang out” if you’re not sure how he’s feeling. He might be a dick about it (i hope not, & honestly it doesn’t look like it’s going that way), he might legitimately need a minute to be sad & get past it if he was hoping for a relationship, or he might roll with it. Either way, seems like better to find out sooner than later?