if you are white, please refrain from venting to your friends of color about racist white people you encounter. we already deal with enough racist white people in real life, so hearing about even more racist white people after we’ve managed to get away from them is really tiring.
#it’s true we fucking hate when you do this #like i get sometimes we all need to vent but save it for the bigger things #i dont wanna hear about every bigoted comment your pal tim makes #venting to me is not a substitute for calling him out #especially when we both know you’re still gonna stay friends with him anyway
honestly its a microaggression
we’re really not here to absorb your stories about your racist family and friends you’re never going to try to correct…while we already have to live with direct racism like every day
This is basic ring theory, people. Help IN. dump OUT.