JUST AS A HEADS-UP

fox-bright:

…since I see some terfs have been reblogging some of my stuff:

Terfs can fuck entirely off, right now and forever.  You give us cis women a shitty, shitty name. You are the reason that friends have been scared to come out to me.  You are the reason that my cis-but-tall-and-slim little sister was physically attacked when she went to use the bathroom.  You are the reason that a friend’s kid has had to leave the martial art she ADORES. You.

Either grow up, knock it off and make recompense for your sins, or kindly remove yourselves from every possible place or method by which you could ever be in contact with another sapient being, I don’t give a single-ply fuck which.  Get my words out of your mouth.

(And while I’m at it, racists, biphobes, homophobes, fat-shamers, slut-shamers, swerfs, anti-muslims anti-immigrants and the darling anti-semites being so very, very bold these days can also go fuck themselves, sideways, with last-season’s Jimmy Choos. With an artisanal Dave’s Insanity Sauce/aftershave lube blend.

Just so we’re clear, I’m a multiracial bisexual with friends, lovers, relatives and comrades of many shapes, orientations, religious beliefs and life circumstances, and whether or not I belong to a group under attack, I’m gonna stand shoulder-to-shoulder with them. My grandparents’ marriage was illegal in almost every state of the union until my mother was seven years old. My existence would have been illegal, under the Chinese Exclusion Act, which covered Filipinos as an afterthought.  People who believe, and fight for, this insane bullshit, are on the wrong side of history, and may they be smashed flat by it.)

And if any of yall got to her posts by way of me, i invite you to fuck off away from me too.

shanology:

ruibird:

since it’s a scary time to be trans: refuge restrooms is an app which maps gender-neutral/single-stall restrooms. it’s community-mapped, so it’s possible you might be the first person to log the restroom locations, but hopefully it’ll help some people.

please reblog this post if you’ve got trans followers. stay safe.

For my non-trans followers: please consider getting the app just so you can add neutral restrooms to the map when you run across them. Simple way to help.

Anyone working on an android app?

queeranarchism:

otabek-kz:

Screenshotted this thread because you all need to see it.

(Cis LGB, I’m expecting you to reblog this.)

Little Light:

Let us assume that
our opponents are competent and have been studying our defenses for
some time, looking for vulnerabilities to exploit. They put out
little feints and test attacks, seeing who will defend who, who can
be divided off from the group, and so on. We’ve seen this. All of
these questions they need answers to: will Jews defend Muslims? Will
Asians support Black struggle? Where can the wedges be put in? The
Alt-Right 4Chan types are always talking about observing and
infiltrating online anti-oppression communities for intel and laughs.
All these little tests. What if they make up a pretend pedophilia
orientation? Will people defend it? Will they tight and divide over
it?

One vulnerability
they’ve consistently turned up is transmisogyny. Lots of groups can
be induced to vilify or wish away trans women. Useful! Remember a
little while ago when Milo put out that petition? “Remove the T
from LGBT”? They watched who signed and promoted that thing. It
was couched in anti-oppression boilerplate. And look! Cis gay men
promoted it. Some feminists and womanists promoted it. Useful intel.
They learned helpful info there: many cis LGB people were raring to
turn on trans people. They’d even say it was for their own
protection. They counted up who signed on, who elaborated on it, who
was excited about it. I’m looking at you, TERFs and enablers, in
particular.  (They even discovered that some fanatical anti-trans
feminists would happily join forces with homophobic Christians, to
hurt trans women.)  Nobody thought that T-out-of-LGBT petition was
going to DO anything. There’s nobody who DECIDES that. It was a
solidarity test balloon. So these laughing nihilists went
looking—along many lines–for cracks in solidarity, joints in the
armor, people who could be attacked 1st.

Why do I point this
out now? Because this week the rumor mill floated a general
anti-LGBTQ EO or bill was coming, & they gauged opposition.
Supposedly they decided that opposition to this anti-LGBTQ
legislation would be too much for now, and put it in the not-yet
column. And yet: Now the word is they’re paring down to a
specifically anti-trans EO. One focused on legal documents, probably
framed as for nat’l security. (After all, mismatched documents are
fraud, right? Terrorists could be using fake ID. And there’s all that
voter fraud to address. Right?)

Previous Intel
operations (& polls) have told them that the majority of the
country has turned to support LGB rights—but NOT trans rights. They
know from watching our intra-movement arguments online that there’s a
long history of cis LGB folks throwing trans folks under the bus.
They have tested to see if cis LGB people will readily abandon trans
people to save themselves. (Yes.) If they’ll outright attack us.
(Yes.) They’ve tested if there are blocs w/in the cis LGB community
so dedicated to hurting trans people that they’ll ally wtthe right
wing. (Yes.) They’ve watched some of these anti-trans fanatics STILL
obsessing over eradicating us, prioritizing that, even while the
country is on fire. Lo and behold: the regime floats anti-LGBTQ
legislation, withdraws it for now. Now they’re floating anti-trans
legislation. Right on time.

Their research
indicates that the general public will happily let trans people burn
first as expendable. That cis LGB people will, too. The plan? To
remove our ability to get legal ID documents. There goes voting,
travel, med. care, having an answer to “your papers, please.”
That and support for keeping us out of public bathrooms, away from
schools, away from gendered spaces, out of jobs and housing. Public
life.

I’m saying this
because they have good reason to believe they’re right that they can
come for us and no one will stop them. Their little intel operations
indicate that not only will no one stop them hurting trans people,
many will even help. Even cis LGB people. I’m saying this especially
for everyone who gave them reason to believe this. Who looked the
other way when trans lives were on the line.

When they come for
us. (They will come for us. They are about to come for us.) Prove
them wrong. Prove them wrong. Prove them wrong. Please.

Remember that the
specter of trans women was already a useful wedge issue &
get-out-the-vote driver in the 2016 campaign. There’s precedent. We
will be used as a weapon and a vulnerability against the rest of you
for as long as our opponents know we won’t be protected by the Left.
One of our lessons from fighting the anti-Muslim E0s in the last week
is this: we have to deny them every victory. Each one counts.
Whatever we teach them about who we will leave behind will be used to
hurt all of us. We have to show them we will abandon no one. not ever
Now is a time when it is clear & stark: solidarity saves us.
Together, we outnumber them. Together, we can win. Let us not be
broken apart. All of you responding with pledges to have our backs:
thank you. Bring your friends on board. As Octavia Butler said: So be
it. See to it.

five short poems about “what if people call themselves toasters now”

pervocracy:

one

is this a problem in your life

toaster people

do you know many toaster people

do they cause you many problems

two

a woman says she is a woman

a man says he is a man

a person says they are neither

and your thoughts turn to toasters

why

three

okay, maybe some people are toasters now

this is okay

hi toasters

four

i am not sure how to talk to a toaster, what they will want?

bread?

not bread?

but i am ready to listen

five

Calling people “toasters” is a really cheap and frivolous argument when there are actual lives at stake here.  It might make sense to pull out in some shooting-the-breeze theoretical debate, but trans people are not theoretical creatures of whimsy.  We’re real people whose needs are human and include such extravagances as “peeing” or “being able to go to the doctor.”  What fucking kind of person do you have to be to hear that people who come out as trans are losing their families and livelihoods and lives, and to think your fucking toaster joke is relevant commentary?  Fuck.

trans-mom:

theresmystory:

trans-mom:

trans women who don’t shave are valid and beautiful. trans women who don’t wear dresses and skirts are valid and beautiful. trans women who aren’t skinny and petite are valid and beautiful. women come in all different forms, all of you are valid and beautiful even if you don’t meet typical feminine beauty standards.

I hope that with “don’t shave” you meant legs and armpits… And not beard…

why? are you saying trans women who have any facial hair are suddenly less valid for natural aspects of the body?

let me bring this to a personal level: I have shaved my face every day for the past four years. I can’t afford laser, so that’s what I have to do. Do you know what that does to the skin? It’s dried out. It hurts. A lot. Shaving, every day, for years, is bad for the skin’s health. sometimes I have to let facial hair grow for the sake of my skin’s health. and let me tell you something amazing, it takes only like a day and a half to have some pretty clear hair growth.

trans women who don’t shave are valid and beautiful. I don’t care about your shitty standards of gender. hair growth is a natural part of the human body, if a woman doesn’t shave it, due to not wanting to or not being able to, then who the fuck cares? it’s her fucking body, not yours.

to quote from another rant I made on this… why should my girlfriend spend literally MONTHS of her life shaving her face when she could be doing things that actually improve the quality of her life?  Playing with our kids.  Reading a book.  Making me dessert (like she’s doing right now. ❤ )  ANYTHING that would actually make her happy, rather than struggling to conform to nonsensical and arbitrary beauty standards that daily shaving isn’t going to fully meet anyway?  And yes, sometimes shaving is the thing that will make her happy, and so she does it.  But other times it’s more trouble and angst than it’s worth, so she doesn’t.  She doesn’t need to shave to be a woman.  Anyone that wants her to shave before they’ll accept her as a woman isn’t really going to accept her as a woman anyway.  She’s got better things to do with her time than beg for approval from that kind of person.

marixicana:

pastelle-prince:

seriously though, list of fucking awful trends in the gay male community:

  • “sassy black woman” voice
  • t-slurs everywhere and rampant transmisogyny
  • talking down to women/harassing them because “it’s ok i’m gay lol”
  • transphobia towards trans men (ew, vaginas!!!)
  • misogyny towards cis women (more ew, vaginas!!!!)
  • “gay is the new black” (says white gay men)

like can we just address

And then they say that you’re being homophobic when you call them out on any of it.