well if you start from a place of
- maybe women are always all over him because he seems charming and nice and not because women are vapid golddigging whores
- maybe a man who wears pointy ears and shapes things like bats to stay on-brand does not take himself 100% seriously all the time
- maybe ideally batman shouldn’t be a supervillain who just happens to punch the right people
then you generally end up with a cool dude imho
And this is how to avoid the Grim Yoghurt Batman in three well thought out steps