emes:
anyone else have little harems of straight men who sort of resent u but also really want u to approve of them? i don’t really have this with any women bc women are chill and know how to interact with their peers, but there’s a certain type of dude who makes me feel like I’m his cool babysitter who he loathes a little cuz she still won’t let him watch r rated movies. it’s a really funny dynamic and I feel like I know exactly what nicki means when she calls dudes her sons.
Oh my God someone finally articulated this.
I’ve been thinking about this phenomenon for months.
This has never happened to me and I am very curious to know more.
Literally my entire middle school experience.